Sunday, May 16, 2010

Ex... (Please dont ignore :/)?

Hi, im very down atm and very emotional.


I miss my ex very much, but not as a bf but as a friend, it been over 3 months of our break up and well we talked alot until about 2 weeks away as we just loved each other companies.


He emailed me about 2 days ago saying that he apologizes how cruel he was to me, and how he treated me and that he hopes i will forgive him, and he also said in this email that maybe in a few weeks after we have healed alittlebit more we can try our friendship again, and i asked him why he said this, because just 2 week sago he said he hated me, and wanted me out of his life for good.. and he just said that he misses my company and our talks.


What should i do? I have to stop myself calling him, as i always use to call him just to talk about my day, about everything that is happening and it so hard, i know i will always love him in away as we broke up because of the distance (he lives in America, i live in the UK)


What should i do? Im moving on but still

Ex... (Please dont ignore :/)?
Everybody makes mistakes. If he apologized and really seems remorseful, why not forgive him? You obviously still care about him. It would be different if he didn't apologize at all or anything. It sounds like he cares about you too. When two people care about each other, they should work on their friendship and forgive each other for mistakes they make, as long as the mistakes aren't REALLY bad. Good luck.
Reply:Let him call you. He's your ex for a reason and while a heart never truly heals when love dies, being friends is better than nothing. But let him call you. He might even realize what he truly feels during your time apart. Best of luck, darling.
Reply:Well, if he says in a little bit maybe you can try the friend thing, wait to see if that will work.





But if he keeps going back in forth from "I hate you, etc" to "let's try being friends", then that's being hurtful and abusive towards you. At that point, you should let him go. It's not worth being strung along like that.
Reply:Get yourself together this is someone that a few days ago said he hated you %26amp; wanted you gone forever !!!!! You talk about being his friend how are you gonna react when ur "friend" has another girlfriend Friend ?? It's not easy %26amp; time will help u to get past this clown!!


Do you like bubur cha-cha (coconut milk dessert)?

Reading posts about yams everywhere made me think about it. What are your favorite ingredients for the best bubur cha-cha dessert in the world?





For me, I don't eat yams (I'm allergic to it)... but I LOVE bubur cha-chas made from pumpkins, sweet potatoes, coconut milk and some sago (big ones). Oh yeah... and for a personal touch, I'd add a vanilla ice cream (2 scoops) for extra kick.





So, all you 'Yammers' in here, what's your idea?

Do you like bubur cha-cha (coconut milk dessert)?
Oooh yeah..it's my all time favourite dessert.





Bubur cha-cha is a popular Nyonya dessert....i just love the traditional ingredients of sweet potato, yam, black-eyed beans, tapioca jelly and sago pearls in thick coconut milk and a little of pcs water chestnuts thrown in.


As a child, whenever it was cooked at home, I would eat bowl after bowl. Those times, the word 'cholesterol' was never heard of... :)





Nowadays it's not easy to find one which suited to my taste...
Reply:oh yeah definitely!





i like mix of everything in it. yam, sweet potato (colourful the better), mashed pumpkin, sago (small original ones lol) and a kind of bean that looks like kidney bean but it has colour os soy bean. i dont know what its called...





i like it cold and watery. never tried it with icecream... mmm maybe next time
Reply:i like it with yam %26amp; sweet potatos
Reply:Yummi , I like to add with avocado %26amp; chocolate milk
Reply:i liked it with kacang hijau....that's my most favourite....
Reply:I like! Tasty and sweet and makes me happy.

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Hair Wigs and Milk Tea...?

Where can I buy hair wigs (black) artificial and real hair and Pearl Milk Tea (Sago Drinks.... - here in Brisbane?

Hair Wigs and Milk Tea...?
Well i had no idea what pearl tea was until now but try these 2 links to a similar question to yours as there is at least one recomendation for a Brisbane restaurant that has great Pearl tea. They stated...


"market square in sunnybank at Kingsfood, a taiwanese restaurant that serves the most amazing pearl tea"


http://forums.vogue.com.au/archive/index...


and anothercomment froma different Q:


"Jen_Jen18, you can buy good pearl tea in Brisbane at T-Bar in the Myer Centre, Green Tea Garden near QUT, or there's one in the Valley I like but I forget the name (next to the Night Owl). Also the best coconut milk tea is at a little tea cafe underneath Cathedral Place in the Valley (they put a swirl of coconut cream in it)."


http://forums.vogue.com.au/archive/index...





For wigs and hairpieces try this Bribane listing of wig and hairpiece suppliers. You will need to contact them to find out what they offer.


http://directory.ourbrisbane.com/directo...


Or try online:


http://www.wigsonline.com.au
Reply:wigs in West End





pearl tea etc., at both supermarkets in the Valley .. I prefer the Burlington .. since Euans no longer accept credit cards


How can people be so naive as to think those 6 miners are still alive?

They are DEAD. They have been DEAD since day one.


I am so sick of people on TV saying "Weve got to get them out so they can get home to their families".


They arent coming home. They are DEAD.


Remember the Sago mine - those guys didnt last 3 days. Its been over 11 with these guys.


No food, no water, and most important a lack fo clean air will kill you.


The media and owners of the mine need to stop giving the family members false hope. Stop calling it a rescue and call it what it is, a recovery effort. Recovering the bodies.

How can people be so naive as to think those 6 miners are still alive?
There is a chance that they are still alivel


And if not, I'm sure their families would like their bodies to bury properly.
Reply:There is always hope at least until the bodies are brought up at that point everyone has to be able to say we did our best to save them, it just wasn't good enough. The families will have hope until they see the bodies at that point they will pray that their love one didn't suffer. And the others are right if it was someone you love would you want to them to give up after the first few days? I think not there is always a chance right up until you see the dead body....
Reply:Don't be so cold. Their families still have high hopes with or without the media. If it happened to someone you cared about, Im sure you would still like to hope that they were still alive.
Reply:Of course no one can be certain that the men are alive. But neither can anyone be certain they are not. It is possible that they are. Until proven otherwise, I think the sensible thing to do is to try to reach them, except if it is too dangerous for the rescuers, as it indeed may be at this point.





If the air were not so good, or if they had been knocked out by flying coal or rocks, or for other reasons, the men could have fallen into a state of unconsciousness in which they would not be responsive, not be making noise, and yet be alive. In fact, such a state of unconsciousness, if it lowered their metabolism, could be a means of preserving them in an environment of lower oxygen and without food.





I tend to agree with you that the chances for their survival are extremely slim--but this has also been stated in the news.





It seems logical that they could not last more than about 60 days without food, on the outside. Past that, if they had still not been found, I would say it was quite safe to fill out the death certificates. There are exceptions, however, and people have found ways of clinging to life when others would have given up long before.





The next question is: what is the legal procedure for declaring someone dead in uncertain circumstances? What criteria is the decision based on?





Life is uncertain, handle with prayer!
Reply:Truthfully, I don't disagree with you. But as a retired military person, I also understand the mindset of, "You don't leave a comrade behind." It's what makes it possible to go back into battle (or into a mine), because you know that your buddies will try to get to you until all hope is gone.





A tragedy nonetheless.
Reply:Yes I know that the possibility that they are alive is slim, and getting slimmer the more that the days go on, but they do have some water, food, and the air has been found to be able to support life. There have been a case of miners being trapped for 28 days, and they were rescued alive, and there have been other cases where they have lasted for 14 days or so. If it was one of your family members of friends I'm sure that you wouldn't want to give up hope especially since some good signs like live able space, and enough air to support life. I personally think that they should drill more holes, and discontinue the underground rescue effort until it would be safe to do resume it. If they are able to drill a hole and possibly find the miners they could give them enough to survive until they are able to get a plan to rescue them or if they are able to find their bodies then they won't have to worry about rescuing them anymore.
Reply:Also there is plenty of water underground. Most of the machines use WATER to keep the dust down also msha laws state that there must be water in each section of the mine and the water must be adequate. Also there is ground water in a mine that seeps constantly into the mine thats why mines must have a good pump system to keep all the water out. There is also a thing (which you are very uninformed about called bleeder entries which used to vent dust and gases. There are many of these vents that all miners are trained to locate and to use to get a supply of air. Also all the water lines that the equipment uses have plenty of water in them. The miners are also trained to drain these lines and use them as vents and ways to get air into the place where they are stuck at. So before you know what goes on underground and ASSUME that they are dead go and work inside a mine. Learn how many ways they actually have to stay alive and when to give up hope.
Reply:There were 3 miners rescued that were trapped in a mine for 23 days. There is still a chance these great men are alive!!





If they were your loved ones, would you want them to stop looking if there was even a small chance they are alive??
Reply:You are so darn positive and stuff!!!!!
Reply:There actually have been cases where miners have been found alive after being trapped for 14 days. I do think the chances are slim and considering last night's accident in which three rescuers were killed, they really need to weigh the consequences of continuing with the rescue effort.





Having said that, though, it's important to remember that people directly involved in situations like this have a strong need to believe that the people are alive. It's very hard to accept death when there are so many unkowns. I really don't think the media or the mine owners are giving the families false hope. I think the family members are holding on to hope because they can't do anything else.





Just saw your update and I don't know the answer to that. But I think that day is coming soon.


What can i do?

My sago palm has some yellow leaves...what can i do to turn them green again?? PLEASE HELP!!

What can i do?
i know this sounds crazy but pour some vanilla extract (half a bottle) in the plant, it will work wonders
Reply:You should allow your Sago palm to dry out in between waterings. If you are successful at growing cactus, watering this houseplant can follow the same schedule. Their watering also should follow according to the amount of light they receive. If it is placed in an area with lower light levels, you may only need to water it every couple of weeks. If matured foliage begins to yellow you are probably over watering the plant.
Reply:Cant...just cut them off..it will make new ones...


Settlement?

Can anyone tell me where to information on the settlement amount the families received in the Sago Mine disaster?

Settlement?
Settlement agreements in cases where there was negligence on the part of a company often require confidentiality - they won't be reported anywhere. Unless you can find something in the public domain that describes settlement amounts, you're not going to be able to get that information. The court cases won't have that information either - settlement agreements are not filed with the court. There are settlement and verdict reporters, but those will cost you money to view. You can find them by typing into a search engine "verdict reporter" and going to the state of venue - in this case, West Virginia. Good luck!

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