Problem getting an erection with a partner.?

Hello, I am 25 a virgan and I am having problems getting a erection with a partner. I have NOOOO problem if I am alone, I some times just like randomly get one, I can even get one if I see like a hot girl walking down the street, but recently tried to have sex with my girl friend, I love her and I am very attracted to her. I can think about her when I am alone and have no problem getting one. But a couple week sago, she basicly told me she was ready to have sex and we started kissing and everything else, but I simply could not get an erection, I was able to become semi erect for a couple minutes but it just went away. I am VERY embaressed over this and don't really want to go see a doctor and take like viagra and stuff...but at the same time I don't want her to think I don't like her or something. Does any one know what might cause this and how I might be able to help the situation...I am a little nervious because I herd losing your virginity late in life my cause problems like this.

Problem getting an erection with a partner.?
your just nervous how about watching porn and then call her to tell her to come over and then when she gets there you be ready
Reply:I think it's more of a mental thing that a physical thing. Are you nervous? Are you a little scared? Uncomfortable? You ARE a virgin... it's totally normal to feel these things if you are... maybe you just aren't ready, or don't feel comfortable enough with her. Think on this, and if you think your mind might be the problem, just give it a couple more tries. :)
Reply:Two possibilities:


(A) You have a deep rooted moral conflict about sexual intimacy outside of whatever proscriptions you personally follow.


(B) The potential partner doesn't offer the sexual chemistry you need to become aroused.
Reply:See a doctor and get straightened out....it's in your subconscious..
Reply:just relax it will happen when you at least expect it
Reply:i'd suggest it is just a problem with you losing your virginity so late in life (not necessarily a bad thing). kids have no problem popping wood and using it, problem they have is lasting. your issue would seem to be just the idea of it finally happening. you are probably working your mind too hard. you need to just relax and go with the flow. don't rush into the physical act of sex. i'm pretty sure this act of not keeping/getting an erection for the act will pass as soon as you get used to sex. once again, just relax and don't get frustrated when you're not fully erect. when you learn to control your stress levels, it will be second nature. just learn to relax and enjoy it...